Friday, April 4, 2008

Where to Set Boundaries (2 of 2)

From: Working With You is Killing Me: Freeing Yourself from Emotional Traps at Work

Continuing the learning:

Personal Information: Some people like to “tell all” while others keep personal information closer to “the vest.” The question is, “How much information is really enough to share? Does it determine whom I am with?”

Emotional Expression: Some people wear their emotions on their sleeve and vent regularly while others disguise it. The question is, “How important is it for me to be a person who is emotionally more on an even keel?”

Manners/Courtesy: Some people view personal greetings as a waste of time while others communicate them regularly. The question is, “What does being cordial mean to me? How do I want to treat others?”

Noise: Some people are comfortable with a noisy environment while others feel a bit assaulted by sounds. The question is, “How aware am I of my environment and how I affect others?”

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